If you wish to change, expand, or push your boundaries beyond what is listed in your current application, you are required to complete an Application Reevaluation.
This includes (but is not limited to):
Reevaluation Fee
Important Boundaries
Why This Exists
This process protects both of us. Boundaries should not be changed impulsively, under pressure, or in a heightened emotional or sexual state. The application process exists to ensure consent is clear, informed, and respected—by both of us.
If you want to grow, explore, or evolve your dynamic, that’s welcome. It just has to be done intentionally, responsibly, and in advance.
This includes (but is not limited to):
- Adding new activities, kinks, or fetishes
- Increasing intensity or changing the scope of play
- Removing or modifying existing limits
- Exploring areas that were previously marked as unsure, no, or not discussed
- You are in a clear and grounded headspace when making decisions
- Your consent is informed, intentional, and documented
- I can prepare properly and safely for the session
- Your session remains within ethical, professional, and legal boundaries
Reevaluation Fee
- The Application Reevaluation fee is $50.
- This covers the time required to review your updates, discuss changes, and adjust session planning accordingly.
- This is not a session fee and does not apply to the cost of a session.
- The reevaluation must be completed and approved before any session involving the new requests.
Important Boundaries
- Same-day requests for activities not listed in your approved application will be declined.
- No session will be modified on the spot to include new or escalated activities without an approved reevaluation.
- Submitting a reevaluation does not guarantee approval of all requested changes.
Why This Exists
This process protects both of us. Boundaries should not be changed impulsively, under pressure, or in a heightened emotional or sexual state. The application process exists to ensure consent is clear, informed, and respected—by both of us.
If you want to grow, explore, or evolve your dynamic, that’s welcome. It just has to be done intentionally, responsibly, and in advance.
Communication, Boundaries & Scope of Session Policy
Clear communication and informed consent are mandatory in my space. Your application is not a formality—it is the foundation of your session, your boundaries, and what I am legally and ethically able to do with you.
I review your application the day before your session and again before your appointment to ensure I respect your limits, your mental state, and your consent. I prepare specifically for what you submitted and what we discussed in advance.
Your Application Is the Agreement
This is for your safety, my safety, and the integrity of consent.
Changing or Expanding Your Boundaries
If you want to:
You must update and resubmit your application and discuss it with me before booking or before your next session.
This is intentional. Decisions about boundaries should be made in a clear, grounded headspace—not impulsively in the moment, under pressure, or in a heightened emotional or sexual state.
You may hear the phrase “that’s not what I expected” used in two very different ways in this industry. When clients say this to me, it’s a positive reaction—because they’re pleasantly surprised by the creativity and how well a session is tailored to them.
When that phrase is used as a complaint, it always comes down to expectations or fantasies that were never communicated. You may see a Domme as a Goddess but I promise we can't hear your fantasy prayers.
That is exactly why the application and interview process exists. Your session is built around what was submitted, discussed, and agreed on in advance—not assumptions or unspoken expectations. Saying “that’s not what I expected” does not change what was planned, prepared, or consented to.
Clear communication prevents disappointment. That’s the purpose of this process.
“That’s Not What I Expected”
“I didn’t expect this” is not a valid complaint when:
Your session is built around what you submitted on your application and what we confirmed during your video interview—not what you hoped, assumed, or forgot to mention.
This is exactly why the interview process exists. It allows me to make sure you understand what you selected, what it actually involves, and what to realistically expect from a session. Many people are unfamiliar with the details of certain activities, which is why I explain them, discuss whether they may or may not be a good fit for you based on your interests and boundaries, and answer questions in that setting.
I also take detailed notes during that call to clarify, adjust, and refine your application responses. Those notes, along with your submitted application, are what your session is planned around.
I will not adjust sessions last-minute to accommodate requests that were not part of your application or pre-session discussion. In the past, doing so has led to disappointment and misunderstandings for clients—and that is exactly what this policy is designed to prevent.
Communication Responsibility
Consent & Legal Reality
Your application and agreements are part of your informed consent. That is why this process exists. I cannot and will not perform activities that:
Final Word
If you want a specific experience, communicate it clearly and in advance.
If you want to explore more, update your application and discuss it first.
If you show up asking for things we never talked about, the answer will be no.
This is not punishment. This is how real consent, preparation, and professional sessions work.
I review your application the day before your session and again before your appointment to ensure I respect your limits, your mental state, and your consent. I prepare specifically for what you submitted and what we discussed in advance.
Your Application Is the Agreement
- The activities, interests, limits, and boundaries listed in your application are what your session is based on.
- If it is not on your application and not discussed and approved in advance, it will not happen.
- Same-day requests for new activities, escalations, or boundary-pushing that were not previously discussed will be declined.
This is for your safety, my safety, and the integrity of consent.
Changing or Expanding Your Boundaries
If you want to:
- Explore new activities
- Push or change your boundaries
- Add kinks, fetishes, or intensity that were not on your original application
You must update and resubmit your application and discuss it with me before booking or before your next session.
This is intentional. Decisions about boundaries should be made in a clear, grounded headspace—not impulsively in the moment, under pressure, or in a heightened emotional or sexual state.
You may hear the phrase “that’s not what I expected” used in two very different ways in this industry. When clients say this to me, it’s a positive reaction—because they’re pleasantly surprised by the creativity and how well a session is tailored to them.
When that phrase is used as a complaint, it always comes down to expectations or fantasies that were never communicated. You may see a Domme as a Goddess but I promise we can't hear your fantasy prayers.
That is exactly why the application and interview process exists. Your session is built around what was submitted, discussed, and agreed on in advance—not assumptions or unspoken expectations. Saying “that’s not what I expected” does not change what was planned, prepared, or consented to.
Clear communication prevents disappointment. That’s the purpose of this process.
“That’s Not What I Expected”
“I didn’t expect this” is not a valid complaint when:
- You did not communicate your expectations clearly
- You did not include it in your application
- You requested something last-minute that we never discussed
- You assumed something instead of confirming it in advance
Your session is built around what you submitted on your application and what we confirmed during your video interview—not what you hoped, assumed, or forgot to mention.
This is exactly why the interview process exists. It allows me to make sure you understand what you selected, what it actually involves, and what to realistically expect from a session. Many people are unfamiliar with the details of certain activities, which is why I explain them, discuss whether they may or may not be a good fit for you based on your interests and boundaries, and answer questions in that setting.
I also take detailed notes during that call to clarify, adjust, and refine your application responses. Those notes, along with your submitted application, are what your session is planned around.
I will not adjust sessions last-minute to accommodate requests that were not part of your application or pre-session discussion. In the past, doing so has led to disappointment and misunderstandings for clients—and that is exactly what this policy is designed to prevent.
Communication Responsibility
- It is your responsibility to ensure you are communicating directly with me and through the correct contact method.
- If you message another provider by mistake, fail to send information, or assume I received something I did not, that does not change your session scope.
- If I do not have it in writing from you, it does not exist in your session plan.
- Being interested in a specific piece of equipment or setup doesn’t automatically mean it matches your actual kinks or fetishes. If those things aren’t clearly discussed and aligned ahead of time, expectations and reality won’t match.
Consent & Legal Reality
Your application and agreements are part of your informed consent. That is why this process exists. I cannot and will not perform activities that:
- Were not disclosed
- Were not agreed to
- Were not reviewed in advance
- Were not consented to through the proper process
Final Word
If you want a specific experience, communicate it clearly and in advance.
If you want to explore more, update your application and discuss it first.
If you show up asking for things we never talked about, the answer will be no.
This is not punishment. This is how real consent, preparation, and professional sessions work.